are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

zacharie7301

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« on: June 26, 2008, 11:09:59 AM »

im black tall athletic i know how to make people laugh in the looks department im not that good lookin but i aint ugly i dress good im really smart and soon to be a doctor im am kinda quiet at times but then i will become talkative

my problems are that in high school girls dont really like me as a boyfriend because i aint a gangster and i dont act all hard i like black girls but they only like those type of guys in high school and all other types of races too

im going to college will girls there like me even though i aint that gangster type of guy ? but i do know how to dress and i dont dress like a nerd i dress more like p.diddy

the college im going to is nova southeastern university and its a private school

i dont want gold diggers even though they will probably come after me since im going to be a doctor

i also want more mature and serious relationships with or without sex doesnt matter to me


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Funkadelic

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #1 on: June 27, 2008, 06:44:23 AM »

i dont like gangsters...

i would totally dig you lol


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BrendlaW

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #2 on: June 28, 2008, 02:18:47 AM »

LOL who likes gangsters or thugs? I know most black women go for it because they like black males and thats all that really exist. But its rare you find any race of girl who likes gangsters...ewww

To Miss Chang below a long time ago you said you were from Japan.......


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Kate

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #3 on: June 28, 2008, 09:53:11 PM »

well, hopefully you'll find people who like you and don't try to mold you into a stereotype. College is usually quite different from high school in terms of people and making friends; it tends to be a more open atmosphere (depending on the individual college campus, of course). i think you'll do fine.


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Simply_Cynical

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #4 on: June 29, 2008, 05:27:35 PM »

Teenage girls will always like the bad boys, its just a fact. As the girls get more mature they will be attracted to you more. Probably not your first years of college (because they'll still have young mind), but the last few years and after you will be a hot commodity. Just take your time and don't give off a desperate vibe.


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danksprite420

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #5 on: June 30, 2008, 01:01:59 PM »

It's because their are highschool girls.

They do what the pop culture tells them.

I myself am attracted to personality. Not clothes


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BUBUloonie

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #6 on: July 01, 2008, 08:36:23 AM »

At all the universities that I been to (even small community colleges) it was the outgoing preppy dudes that seemed to get all the women


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RememberToBreathe

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #7 on: July 02, 2008, 04:10:47 AM »

I'll tell ya one thing: get accepted to med school before you tell people you're going to be a doctor.

Trust me on that one.

You'll do fine! Everyone finds people in college; that's what it's for. have a wonderful time! I wish I could go back....


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CharlieD

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #8 on: July 02, 2008, 11:45:11 PM »

Don't worry- there won't be any gangsters in college for you to compete with.

In fact, you might be a very popular novelty, as relatively few blacks go to college.


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badkitty1969

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are girls in college going to like guys like me even though im not a gangster?

« Reply #9 on: July 03, 2008, 07:19:35 PM »

Once you get to college, being a "gangster" is NOT cool. College girls are either focused on education and career, or focused on finding a husband with education and career.

If you are going to a private school, dressing like p. diddy will not earn you any extra cool-points either. Being a clothes-horse just indicates that you are not serious about SCHOOL. You are in college to get an education, not to worry about your image or to chase girls.

Most serious college students (of all colors) stop wearing underpants and either shave their heads or grow dreads midway through their sophomore year. And pretty much ALL college students have lots of sex midway through their freshman year. Focus on your studies, make friends, and don't worry about the rest of it.


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